In this age and time where several things are vying for the attention of people, ladies are unfortunately caught in the web of frustration while trying to attract and keep the right man.
I have compiled some behaviours that attract men and with a little more work, you should be able to tweak this list a little to enable you keep your catch.
- Being Nice
Just as women are looking for a kindhearted, nice guy, men too are looking for someone with a similar disposition.
Most men just want a woman who is nice. ‘Nice’, to a man means being soft, gentle, caring, and kind. Being nice doesn’t make you a weakling or a pushover.
Being nice is not necessarily about the big show of empathy some women try to act out, simple things such as arriving on time for your date, being polite to the waiter/waitress tells the man a lot about you. Note that men are quick to spot a woman who is acting nice from a woman who is nice.
Although I would advise against being ‘too nice’ to every man because men tend to misinterpret being too nice to them as an ‘she’s-into-me’ sign, so be careful on how you express that virtue.
- Having A Positive Personality
You might be wondering, what is more important to men than looks? Contrary to what you may think, personality traits do matter.
Did you know that by possessing positive personality traits, you can directly influence a man’s perception of physical beauty?
There’s no energy that can mimic what’s released when a positive, high-stepping woman enters a room.
To help you stay positive, surround yourself with people who’ll encourage, inspire and believe in you.
- Showing Some Interest
You don’t expect someone whom you have no interest in his business to want to get close to you.
When you’re out on a date with a man whose attention you want, give your attention first. In a more practical way, try leaning in toward your date, smiling, making and keeping eye contact. You know the rest.
- Having A ‘Girl Squad’ (Even Better If You Are The Leader)
As much as ladies like alpha male who lead their pack, men also get attracted to ladies who belong to a ‘girl’ squad and it fuels their pride if she so happens to be the leader of that squad. Sometimes, most men do not fancy stand-alone ladies; they feel she lacks what is needed to make a social connection. This assumption is wrong most times anyway
- Mirroring Him
Have you ever wondered why sales professionals try to look like their target market? It is a simple psychological trick. People respond positively to people who look like them.
When you’re with him, try walking, talking or even eating like him and see the spark that lights up in his eyes.
Come on, no one likes a liar. Don’t buy that crap of lying to him to protect his feelings. Trust me, if he finds out you’ve been keeping things from him, chances are that you wouldn’t even be able to protect the relationship.
Moving away from the ‘truth-lie’ aspect of honesty, the one place where most girls get it wrong is acting who you’re not in front of him. Be honest, be 100% you. It saves you the stress of having to explain why you suddenly like the same food you told him you’re allergic to.
- Having A Good Sense Of Humour
Laugh at his jokes! Don’t forget to do that….very important. A study performed by three universities across the United States and Canada found that while both men and women are attracted to people who have a “good sense of humor,” men interpret this phrase differently than women.
Having a good sense of humour multiplies your attractiveness a hundred times over. Think about it, if you were a man, who would you rather go out with a grumpy-straight-face lady or a merry-gleeful lady?